Membership is ours to give, not yours to buy. In exchange you get the one thing dating apps never offered: a room where every man has already proved who he is — and a door only you can open.
Nothing here is about volume. Every item below exists to remove a specific thing women put up with everywhere else.
Accepted ladies pay nothing — no subscription, no boost, no paywall on seeing who liked you. The Club is funded by the gentlemen's side of the table, deliberately, so that nobody here is a customer being sold to.
Government ID, a live selfie, and a sealed net-worth check above $1M. If verification lapses, the profile leaves. There are no unverified men in your edition, no "maybe later" checks, and no exceptions granted quietly.
$1M+ proven · ID + livenessYou decide who may reach you, and the rule is enforced when a message would be created — not drawn on the screen. Matches only, Shortlist only, $10M+ verified, or Paused. Changing it never deletes a conversation you already have: the gate governs the door, not the room.
Your first three photographs are always public. The rest stay blurred behind a lock until you accept someone — and that unlock is per person, not per app. Declining someone leaves nothing behind for them to see.
Roses, champagne, dinner, a weekend away — sent with a note, arranged by the concierge, and never an obligation. You may decline any gift without explanation, and no address of yours is ever passed to the sender.
A gentleman sends a place, a night and, if he likes, a car. You accept or decline in one tap. ÉLAN books the table under the Club's name, so your number and your name never travel ahead of you.
Check-ins before and after, an SOS that reaches our team, and a trusted friend who can be told where you are. Block someone and they are gone from your view and you from theirs, with no residue and no second approach.
Four settings. You hold all four. The label on your profile always reflects the one that is active — there is no second, hidden rule underneath.
When someone tries to reach you past your gate, he is told plainly why he cannot — "You'll need to match with them first." You see no request, no badge, no count, no ghost row. A second attempt behaves exactly like the first.
Being wanted is not the same as being reachable. ÉLAN is built around the difference.
Request an invitationMost ladies join on the word of a current member. The introduction is the application — we ask for photographs and a conversation, not a résumé.
Every file is read by the Committee. There is no algorithm choosing who is beautiful enough, and no quota by city, age or type.
Leave whenever you like, in one tap, and your photographs and conversation history go with you. Membership is ours to give; it is never ours to keep.
It takes four minutes, and it costs nothing — now or later.